Fetish, Kink and BDSM Adventurers

Melbourne, Australia
3412 Members

RULES FIRST: Under NO circumstances you are to use someone else's image, or images of hardcore pornography, or images depicting animals or children (which includes toons, artwork or anime/hentai). If your profile mentions anything that violates consent or promotes or suggests emotional, physical or sexual violence outside a consensual role-play scenario (for example upskirting) you will be banned immediately. Please respect others; any type of harassment, bigoted or misogynistic behaviour will result in removal from the group. Report any violations to Jenny/Ben via tvisties@gmail.com, please add screenshots and any related info, for example any bad online or offline behaviour. If your membership has been declined it could be that you have a vague or incomplete profile or no profile image or name. Just update and try again, or send us an email. Do not message or harass members you haven't met, I receive complaints everyday and regularly ban offenders. Come to events, meet people and form connections! 

This is a private group so non-members cannot see your profile or information. Persons who are active in the kink community, venue owners, event organisers, authors, bloggers, kink/bondage experts looking to promote their events are welcome. Joining or remaining in this group, and attending any events by the organisers or affiliates, implies you assume complete responsibility for your safety and actions.

Now the good stuff.
This group is designed to inspire you and felicitate discussion and sharing in a safe, non judgmental environment. We will discuss and explore emotional, plot-related, and sexual kinks. 

We could go into detail about why these often combine together to heighten one's response to work, but I think it might be self-evident so we'll be sparing you all that. You're welcome to use items on this list as negative examples or *squicks (*refers purely to the physical sensation of repulsion, and does not imply a moral component). Not all kinks are created equal, and for every one that makes you go "EWW!" there is someone who thinks the exact same of yours.

And these are just examples, remember. They are not some comprehensive, end-all, be-all list of fetishes, so if you have something that makes you hot under the collar, either keep it to yourself like a shiny, shiny treasure....or add it to either the comments so one of us can keep the OCD-level of order here, or throw it in yourself!

Abuse Recovery (sexual, emotional, and/or violent childhood abuse; past abusive relationships; character A's abuse drives character B into arms of character C; the wounded child as an adult archetype)

Abduction as seduction (beloved captives)

Accidental stimulation (proximity and friction; involuntary arousal; situations of adrenaline and reflexes)

Acne (appearance of greasy skin, cysts on the face, pustules)

Adrenaline and crises (pre-, mid-, or post-crisis sex; speed-freaks or adrenaline junkies; near-death experiences; the shadow of impending death--hours, minutes, or moments; see also Situational engineering)

Age differences (e.g., older man/younger man pairing)

Age regression (mental and/or physical regression; childlike behavior caused by brain damage; characters met before in the past; high school AUs; time-travel)

Aliens make them have sex (fuck or die; fertility rituals; intoxication; taking one for the team)

Alpha males (alpha/beta male pairings; alpha/alpha pairings; het alpha males)

Amazons and strong women (warrior women; women as soldiers, law enforcement figures, or leaders; goddesses; tough, butch, or muscled women; lesbians; quasi-masculine characteristics in general, such as a boyish body type: slim, athletic, and small-breasted; forcefulness or brusqueness)


Anal penetration with foreign objects

Anal sex (face to face, from behind, bottom riding top; standing; bent over desk; gay or straight; girl-on-boy with strap-on; girl-on-girl with strap-on)

Anal/butt plugs (during sex; worn under clothes in public)

Angst (Emotional themes)

Animalistic behaviors and characteristics, dominant (snarling; sniffing; scent-marking or biting; other claiming acts; territoriality; predatory stalking; cuffing; forcing the partner's neck down; claws and other features)

Animalistic behaviors and characteristics, submissive (feral characters or behavior; domesticated pet behavior such as sitting at owner's foot and cheeking their thigh; purring; licking; characters objectified as animals, e.g., ponyboys)

Animal themes or fetishization (physical transformation, e.g., animagi or werewol


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